A Unique Nursing Experience: Quidenham Children’s Hospice, Norfolk, Early 1990s
This was a unique nursing experience, as there were only four such hospices in the country then.
We looked after children with short life expectancies who has a variety of health conditions.
Despite this, I worked with some of the happiest children I’ve ever seen, with amazing and unique personalities.
We also provided respite care for the families.
One of the precious moments in my career was when a baby boy with terminal cancer died in my arms one evening with his mother present.
As the parents were Christian, I left a note for the nuns at the Monastery Chapel (located on the same site as the hospice) asking them to pray for the parents as they had their last moments with their son.
I remember reading Psalm to comfort them.
As a consequence, Gideon Bibles were introduced and placed around the hospice.
What I learnt:
Hospice nursing is for a season, as it takes a very special type of nurse to work long-term in hospice care.
Back To Africa: Voluntary Orphanage Work In Kenya, 1995-1996
I went from one children’s area to another.
I volunteered to work at a home for street boys and orphans near Lake Victoria.
I found myself in a leadership role where I drew on my previous experience as well as from a Management Course I’d undertaken at Papworth.
Some children needed regular medication for HIV and TB, with malaria hitting them hard at times.
Occasionally, mothers turned up with their toddlers with mumps or measles begging for help, as these diseases were sometimes fatal.
I later went on to do a tropical nursing course at the London School of Tropical Medicine and Hygiene.
I have visited Africa many times since.
Learning for life - The NHS is wonderful!
This involved giving telephone health advice, using algorithms and common sense.
There was a variety of calls; from chest pains, panic attacks, ingesting berries, missed contraceptive pills, infant pyrexia, suicidal callers and toothache.
Each call was recorded, plus we to used phone codes for notes writing, taking breaks, and even going to the toilet.
It was like big brother was watching us!
What I learnt:
I learnt a lot about a lot.
Disability Analyst, 2014-2015
My job involved assessing personal situations of those with a disability to see if they qualified for PIP benefits.
We assessed clients in their homes or at our office.
Typing up notes and analysing them was a lengthy process, as it was important to be accurate and thorough, ensuring all the relevant information was included.
I met people from all walks of life, some in very challenging circumstances.
I was told that it was not our role to offer advice, which I found really hard because it went against my natural instincts of wanting to care for and support others.
In the last few months of working there, I came to the realisation that I was more suited to a patient care role and decided to move on.
Learning point - I was more suited to a patient care role.
Hands On: Enteral Nurse, 2015-2016
I worked as a nurse advisor for an enteral feed company.
In this role we taught the patient, family, nursing home staff and agency staff how to care for different feeding tubes such as PEG and RIG, plus pump care and problem solving.
We also did pump training sessions for nurses and student nurses at the hospital.
What I learnt:
I carried this knowledge and skills over to my next role.
Current Position: Branch Nurse For A Care Agency, 2016 To Present
I now work as a Branch Nurse in a busy branch after doing some agency nursing in a variety of settings.
No day is the same as the last.
I spend a big proportion of time ensuring carers are competent at caring for patients in their own home; needing suction, oxygen, Nippys, level 3 drugs, nebulisers, stomas, enteral tube care etc.
In this Covid-19 era, there have been many challenges with changing practices, mostly involving increasing safety for patients and staff alike, together with facing and dealing with the ongoing changes in PPE supply and demand.
I like to feel that I have been able to draw from my previously gained knowledge and nursing experience, by working and adapting to all our new challenges locally, nationally and globally.
Proving flexibility whilst communicating well at this time, whilst mainly working from home, together with the excellent cohesiveness of our well-established team, will put us in good stead for the future.
What I’ve learnt:
This Covid-19 era is only a chapter, but whether you have been a nurse for three or thirty years, you are always learning.
With the all the changes I have experienced due to the span of time I have been nursing, together with all my different experiences over the years, the most important advice I would give to my younger self is:
“Do what you love and love what you do, never lose your humility, and always be ready for change.”
Let me know in the comments your thoughts on what I've said about my journey - let's chat there!
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About this contributor
Branch Nurse
I'm Julia, and I have had an interesting, varied career as an RGN, spanning 35 years, so far. I am currently a Branch Nurse at Prestige Nursing & Care in Norwich.
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Mat Martin
4 years agoReally loved reading this Julia, thanks for sharing it.
Really loved reading this Julia, thanks for sharing it.
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Matt Farrah
Matt Farrah
4 years agoThanks for sharing such a fantastic story here Julia. I'm sure this will inspire anyone considering nursing to go for ... read more
Thanks for sharing such a fantastic story here Julia. I'm sure this will inspire anyone considering nursing to go for it!
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