My Personal Reflections Of Working On St Helena
In a community of 4000 people you may not know everyone but you know most people or their family. So people are not a number, they are part of the same community that you live in.
One day you can be in the clinic counselling a person who is struggling and then the next day you are at a meeting where you are interacting with that person in their professional capacity.
From the start of my training I was never comfortable with the notion that when one worked therapeutically with a patient that you should keep it impersonal on your part.
That it was ok to delve into the life of another person but never reveal anything of yourself. Of course there must be some boundaries but it always struck me as fundamentally dishonest and unequal to expect someone to share their most intimate details with you while you remain impartial.
Community Nursing And Therapeutic Relationships
Well on St Helena, or indeed other remote communities, good luck with staying detached. When new staff arrive they are amazed at how quickly the community knows who they are and where they come from.
It can be disconcerting at first but it comes with living a remote community and you have to adjust. I also believe that this close personal connection is fundamental to the strength of our service is fundamental to the strength of our service.
It is this blurring of boundaries, that I work therapeutically with people but I am also a member of this tight knit community that I find so rewarding and at times challenging.
It is only since I arrived on St Helena that I believe I was able to develop very strong and meaningful therapeutic relationships. That my relationships with the people I support to recover from mental health problems are multi faceted, complex but ultimately I believe that it is the therapeutic relationship that is the foundation on which recovery is built.
Anyone who wants to contact me on St Helena will know where I live or will be able to find my phone number. Sometimes people will call me at home, occasionally when in distress a person will knock on my door.
I cannot refuse to talk to someone or turn them away. I may agree to see them at the office at a later time or date but in a crisis I need to support that person at the time they are asking for help regardless of how they ask.
Non-Nursing Duties
Often we will support people in what could be considered non-nursing duties. This might include helping them with their shopping, advocating for them if they have to go to the benefits office or just giving them a lift so that they can visit relatives.
While this may seem outside of our scope of practice I maintain that these are essential activities as they add to the persons quality of life. Even more importantly they build trust and a sense of security.
So if there is a crisis we are more likely to be accepted by the person as someone they can relate too. I remember an incident in the early hours of the morning where a person with a severe and enduring illness was relapsing and became paranoid.
They locked themselves in the house. The police were in attendance but I was able to convince the person to let me into the house and take them to hospital.
I believe that despite their paranoia we had a strong enough relationship that the person trusted me to help them and I was able to avoid the person being sectioned as they agreed to stay in hospital.
I Found What I Was Missing
And this is what I was missing all throughout my nursing career prior to coming to St Helena. The opportunity to be involved in a person's journey, through the highs and lows, setbacks and achievements.
Not everyone recovers in the sense that they are able to be overcome their mental health challenges, not everyone wants my support, but being part of this community means that I can be there for people when they ask for help.
Sometimes it is about being available when the person is ready. There are a number of people who have dropped in and out over the years in crisis only to one day sit down and disclose what has happened to them, often it is abuse or trauma they have suffered many years before.
To be present when a person finally says 'I need help' is humbling because I know how difficult it is for them to ask.
The Moral Of The Story
I could not imagine that when I started out as a nurse that I would end up living and working in one of the most remote communities on the planet.
All I know is that at the beginning of my nursing career there were times when I wanted to quit nursing altogether but I kept trying different jobs until I eventually found the one that just made sense.
And this is I suppose is the moral of this story. I get that working in a remote community might not be your idea of the dream nursing job. But don't ever give up looking for your dream job in nursing.
In a strange way all those different nursing posts I had before going to St Helena prepared me for working on the island. As I had experience in different fields of nursing I was well placed to take on the challenges of remote area nursing where you need to know a bit of everything.
And if you don't know you keep looking until you find an answer
About this contributor
Mental Health Nurse
I am a Psychiatric Nurse on the remote island of St Helena. I originally trained in Australia graduating as a Mental Health Nurse in 1991. Shortly after, I moved to London, and worked in the NHS and the private sector. Agency and bank. I had several full time posts and covered everything from general psychiatry, day hospitals, nursing homes, substance misuse and learning disability. I relocated to St Helena with my wife in 2004.
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2 years agoWow! I love this! Thank you for sharing your journey and story as a mental health nurse. You are fantastic ... read more
Wow! I love this! Thank you for sharing your journey and story as a mental health nurse. You are fantastic nurse and the community of St Helena are very lucky to have such a caring and compassionate individual on their island!!
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